Thursday 29 October 2015

My experience with homosexuals — Mr. Ibu

Popular comic actor, John Okafor, popularly known as Mr.
Ibu is one man that knows how to make his audience
laugh with his antics onscreen. Known for his imbecilic
roles, he says his fans sometimes mistake his movie
personality for his real character, and in this exclusive
chat with Showtime Celebrity, he speaks about his career
and clears the air on some misconceptions about his
person. Excerpts…
 How do you prepare yourself before going on set?
There is no preparation; it’s an in-built thing. I love acting,
and interpretation of characters given to me doesn’t really
take me time to do. Straight ahead, I read and interpret
my characters and I enjoy it so much. Acting is so sweet.
How did you really come about the name Ibu?
Ibu has been my
name from
childhood. My
grandfather
bore the name
too and I took
after him
because as I was
growing up, they
used to call me
all his names.
On how I got the
name in a
movie,
somebody was
actually writing
a script that I was going to act in. He was using my name
as a character in it and at the end of the day, they titled
the film ‘John Ibu Okafor.’ It took me time to change it
from Mr. John Ibu to John Okafor; later I left it as Mr. Ibu.
What has been your most embarrassing moment?
Not really on stage, but on the road when I drive into my
fans and they demand I should come down from the
vehicle which I normally do. But the irony is that some
people hate me. One day, I came down from the vehicle
acknowledging cheers from my fans and shaking hands
with them. Meanwhile, somebody was busy knocking my
head from the back and whenever I look back to see who
it was, I will see everybody smiling and laughing with me.
Before I know it, another person will hit me with another
heavy knock again. I felt a lot of pains but I decided
to bear it because they are my fans. However, I don’t
blame them because I caused it with the way I interpret
my roles in films; It overwhelms them, so they feel the
only way to appreciate me is to hit me and to keep liking
me.
You’ve worked with a lot of actors; which of them do you
have the best chemistry with?
A whole lot of them, because each time I have anyone of
them on set with me, I see it like a challenge because I
bring people up and parley with them. I don’t go about
with any airs; everybody is equal to me, so each time
we’re together on set, they act well and I love all of them.
And is there anybody you’d like to act with that you’ve not
had the opportunity of being on set with?
Hmmm, I have worked together with all of them, or let me
say almost all of them.
What are you working on presently?
Now, I’m working on Ibu Runs Mad in America. It’s about
madness all through. I had to go nude completely; I put
off all my cloth and I had to use powder to deceive people
so that they will not know but it was all fun. It’s a very
hilarious movie, but there are some serious lessons
attached to it. There are also lots of big actors in the
movie including white men and women. Part of it was shot
in Dallas, Bronx and Queens in New York, and
Philadelphia all in the United States of America.
You have often played romantic roles which may entail
kissing and smooching female actors. How does your wife
react to this?
She is an artiste too; if people kiss her, will I kill her? If she
kisses, I kiss, so we both kiss.
Is any of your children taking after you?
Yes, my first son is showing interest in acting but I’m trying
to push him away though he is insisting he’s going to act.
He is married now with two kids, so I am a grandfather.
You don’t look like a grandfather, what’s the secret of your
looks?
I’m always happy. I believe that you should leave behind
whatever problem that is hanging you up; enjoy yourself,
and smile with people. Laughter is the solution to lots of
problems; enjoy yourself and feel free.
Can you recall your saddest moment?
The only time I felt bad was watching my mum die. I was
standing watching her leave us; that moment was so tough
for me because I loved her so much. She left me with a lot
of orientation like beating a woman is a sin; and that any
man who beats a woman will go to hell. I held on to that
word until I got mature and that orientation is still in me
and my siblings; I’ve never raised my hands on a woman.
What will you consider the high point of your career?
Do I really have a high point? Everything is a high point for
me; the sky is my limit. In fact, the sky is the beginning
because I want to go higher and train so many people,
and carry them along; both boys and girls. That is what I
enjoy doing.
What about the lowest point of your career?
The lowest moment in my career is going for an award
and nothing was given to me. Sometimes, they gave me
plaque and no money is attached to it. I’m tired of packing
‘sticks’ at home with nothing attached to it. It pains me a
lot, so I’ve decided to only go for awards that are really
worth it. But if it is just any award, I can send my manager
or anybody else to go and collect the stick on my behalf.
Does acting pay all your bills?
Yes, definitely; acting pays all my bills. I love acting so
much; it has made me who I am today and I thank God.
Do you have any regrets?
Sometimes, people think I am not lettered because of the
kind of language I speak, the way I dress, and my reaction
to things in films. They see me as a mumu (fool), and I say
yes to it, that I’m a mumu. But I attended elementary
school; I didn’t attend primary school because in my time,
there were no primary schools. From elementary school
which stopped in 1974, I went to secondary school in
Sapele. After that, I went to Institute of Management and
Technology (IMT), Enugu for my tertiary education. I did
part-time there because my father died early so there was
nobody to train us. We were all feeding from hand to
mouth. Having known that education is a priority; and that
one cannot do anything without education, I was bent on
making sure that I was educated to a level that was at
least equal to my mates. But at a time, I stopped and then
picked up again. That was how I actually trained myself.
Have you ever faced sexual harassment?
If you go to my page on Facebook, I fight vehemently
against homosexuals; both gays and lesbians because
these are viruses in the industry that kill the spirit. It is not
good at all. There is no harassment as I speak to you; the
harassment is within same sexes. Men harass themselves,
and women harass themselves, so they are
wonderfully preparing themselves for the devil, and I tell
you, they will all go to hell.
Have you ever been wooed by a homesexual?
(Shouts). Several times, and the man that approached me
will never come close to me again in his life because I
humiliated him publicly. I called him out, and shouted his
name everywhere. Besides, if it was by looks, nobody
would approach me because I’m not fine.
What would you like to say to your fans?
What I’m trying to tell my fans is, if you know what is your
destiny, follow it up. Do not go into things because people
are doing it; ask questions before you do anything. Don’t
delve into any business you don’t know anything about;
acting is so sweet but if you don’t know anything about it,
just leave it. I hate it when people pay money to be given
roles in movies. Why should you pay money to be given
what you don’t know how to do, then people who can do it
are not working; that is stealing.

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